3 Ways To Make A Man Obsess Over You
Do you want your man’s gaze to be focused solely on you? Would you like to make him fully dependent on you? If that’s the case, you’ve come to the right location.
As you may or may not be aware, there are certain things that women may do to attract men. The good news is that they have nothing to do with appearances and all to do with attitude.
You’ll not only have his attention once you get into the right mindset, but he’ll stick by your side like a lovesick puppy dog.
This is what you would do.
1. Maintain a sense of mystery.
Have you ever felt mentally exhausted after a date or as if you knew everything there was to know about a man? If that was the case, you probably didn’t want to see him again.
The same can be said for men.
He won’t feel obligated to call you if you’re the kind of woman who takes over a conversation or reveals everything from your childhood memories to your deepest secrets.
Instead of pouring your heart to him, it’s crucial that you keep some details to yourself to keep him coming back for more.
It’s also worth noting that this doesn’t only apply to face-to-face conversations; it also extends to text messages, phone calls, online communications, and so on.
2. Maintain a good attitude.
Emotions in general, not just smiles, are infectious. This means that whether you’re a pessimist or a self-pityer, your emotions will affect your date as well.
Men are drawn to happy, outgoing women for a variety of reasons. Men, like women, do not want to date someone who is constantly depressed. That is why it is important to maintain a positive attitude and look for the positive in any situation.
Your guy will become hopelessly committed to you until he knows that you’re the one who keeps him smiling.
3. Be difficult to obtain.
This one has been debated over the years, but trust me when I say it works.
Having him work for your love and affection will keep him chasing you because men are hunters at heart. He’ll become addicted to you if this happens.
It’s important that you’re not “too open” in order to do so. This means you don’t drop anything to see him, and you have some expectations when it comes to making plans with him.
If he calls and asks if you want to go out to dinner that night, tell him you’re already booked and consider rescheduling for another day or two. And if you have nothing planned for the evening, holding him on his toes so he can see you can hook him.
It’s also crucial to remember that you aren’t always the one who initiates communication with him. If you’re always texting, tweeting, calling, and so on, it’ll detract from his search of you. Let him be the one to woo you instead.
See this video for more ideas about how to get him to chase you: